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Friday, September 9, 2011

The boundaries are now called technologies


I’ve had such terrible experiences with technologies that pushed me to write those experiences here and there. Yet I just had another one and I am so sure I have to write it down here. 

One day I went to this meet-up. These people are not really strangers to me. I know them but not in a way that I know my close friends. I just know them. We spent hours nearly without some topics to talk to. Instead, they spent hours ‘talking’ with their gadgets, while I left clueless alone. BlackBerry, iPad, iPhone, MacBook, you name it, they have it. The only topic they were busy talking to was the poor wifi connection. 

I’m not really a people person. Not that kind of girl that will ask you first if you happen to sit next to me anywhere in this world, from bus seats, to random meetings. I am not the one who has the big interest on some people and eager to ask them about anything. No. I am the one that shuts her mouth closely until someone asks me for something. I prefer to be drowned in my own world in the middle of bunch of unknown people. But that doesn’t mean that I cannot be in the middle of the meet-ups or party or anything. Although I’m not a people person, I cannot not communicate, in a conventional way. I value being interactive with everyone, I value the distances, I value the effort they’ve put to be there.

Can you imagine how I was at that weird meet-up? I felt awkward and totally insignificant. To sum up: I hate it. I’d rather be sitting alone, drinking coffee while watching people pass by than being in the middle of unnecessary meeting where the members are busy with their so-called techie toys. 

Oh how I love when black berries and apples were simply just fruits, and cellphone was only to call and to text.