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Tuesday, December 21, 2010

It’s not about the teacher, it’s about the lesson.

This is me, talking to myself. Just because, I have to. Yeah, I have to talk to myself about being a tougher person. So, pardon me. Let me do this lecture for myself, the girl who always let somebody breaks her heart.

Here's how you should deal with it.

You see yourself learning every single day. That's a good way to start everything. But, you seem like you cannot deal with every possible teacher to teach you how to live a life. Do you?

You may want your ideal life taught by ideal-kind-at-heart teachers like... grandpa, mom, uncle, Y, you name it. But, the fact is.. you cannot choose your teacher. It is almost as impossible as choosing your birth mom. Every day you meet new persons, and every day you learn something from them. They may teach you in a hard way or in a nice way. Either way, it's the lesson that counts.

They may be very mean to you. They may break your heart into pieces with their comments, their judgements, their stern eyes, their high voice. But somehow, they teach you something. Something very good for you.

You cannot ask everybody to be very nice to you. You just can't. All you have to do is keep seeking lessons from them, from their viciousness, and keep learning how to be a better person.

Do you understand?

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